Recently I discovered my husband’s affair with a work colleague. He claims to not understand why he had an affair, claims he didn’t even want an affair and does not know why he embarked on an affair. He truly loves his family and I, we have a great relationship, but this wasn’t enough to prevent him from cheating.
Months have passed and I am still healing. I don’t know how long it will take, but my husband and I love each other dearly and want our marriage to work. Although awful, his affair has made my husband refocus on our family and our relationship, which a year ago would have made me so happy. Instead I get my devoted husband back but I am carrying all the pain and hurt of his affair and I have been on an emotional roller coaster since.
This website has been created as I realised I had spent the past few months searching the internet for information on how to deal with affairs in marriage and real stories from other betrayed spouses so I could see I was not alone. Scarily this happens to many marriages, contrary to what people believe, an affair can happen to good marriages, but why?
On this website you will find information on what I have tried in order to make sense of it all, what worked and what didn’t work. I trust if you are reading this you are probably in a similar situation as me and I do hope that my journey will provide inspiration and comfort to those who desperately need it.